HAPPY HOUR

Because disqus is such a fun place and everyone gets on so well ,I thought it would be nice to post a fun thread.

Only joking,but here's some jokes anyway.

Is everybody happy!

It's not so long ago

Before Meiji era, unless Edo era, there was a legal system called "Adauchi" in Japan.
Written like 仇討ち, read like Adauchi.

It's an overt system to accomplish a vengeance and only someone's family can do that.
When someone was killed by someone else, his family could make a submission to authorities and when they could get a permission, the bereaved family could kill the assailant legally.

So the assailant, who knew that the permission was granted, was going to run, hide, so not to be found.
The family follows, over and over and when they find him, they show out the permission paper, introduce themselves to tell the assailant who they are, and why they need to do adauchi, and then try to kill him.
That's the strict manner for it, should not just assault him and kill him.
The bereaved family was allowed to attack the assailant all by themselves, like multiple members of the family, and the assailant was allowed to fight back, by his own, but no one should help any side of people when the showdown happens.
Sometimes the family failed, sometimes succeeded.

It's not so long ago, only 140 years ago still there was such system.

Heat is critical for life in Japan

So Paul's blog seems to be a big success, except for the annoying warning that required me of one more click.

It's too hot and humid in here as well but we use air condition all through the summer otherwise we may die.
Really.
By each year certain number of people die for heat in Japan.

I heard that in France, people often have no air condition to cool the room because France is cold.
Maybe in Britain as well, I don't know.

Humidity is a common issue in Asia and we are rather less bad in this criteria, like south east Asia is more humid, some girl I used to know went to Bankok or somewhere and she said she just passed out for the heat and humidity when she arrived at the airport.

Korea is said to be colder, its winter seems to be harsh.
They have a special system for warming, called Ondor, I don't know how to spell.

I ever watched some British TV drama where a main character always wears a duffle coat. All season.
Forgot the name.
That's not possible in Japan and we need really many features to get on each season, from what we wear to what makes us not die.
I honestly don't like the weather of my country and I don't need seasonal changes, anyway, people live with it and enjoy.

I'm Bored

So today in London it was around 100 F. I had some plans to do a few things,but in the end I just sat in doors most of the day,apart from taking the dogs out for a short walk,too hot to go up the park.
I live near London's biggest open air swimming pool Tooting Bec Lido.

Built in 1906,the same year my Grandfather was born.The other day I went past there and the queue was massive for people waiting to get in,I can only guess what it was like today.
I did manage to cut my finger opening a tin of corned beef for the dogs and then I decided to cook dinner and I couldn't decide what to have,so on the hottest day of the year I decided to have roast beef and roast potato's,which I enjoyed but it meant having the oven on for a couple of hours,is that mad or what?
The weather should cool down a bit tomorrow about 27 C,but we're expecting thunderstorms,the humidity was really bad today as well.
The disqus channel system seems really quiet again and as I flicked through some channels,I'm still noticing people having problems with disqus,as I'm still having on and off.
So that was my exciting day,tomorrow I better do some shopping.

No worry GAF, there's a place for you to be

I feel same tune from GAF

GAF is a nice person who hates women very much.
His brain size is as much as paramecium but it doesn't matter.
It's his mom who wronged him much and made him a real good misogynist.
I can't help dropping tears in seeing his childhood photo. I have some hunch, if he ever had no experience with woman...anyway, it's not his fault but from what I learned through those sorry Japanese men, he has the same tune or atmosphere they have.

2 dimensional wife

Believe it or not, there are many 30 or 40 cherry boys in nowadays Japan and I actually know at least 2 guys in their mid 40s who have no experience with a woman for sure, not even for once.
It's a long story how we ended up like this, anyway certain of us stopped taking care of men and certain men are with their imaginary wives those 2 dimensional.

Japan is his place to be

Anyway, a man like GAF is not so scarce in Japan and there are ways for a man like GAF to live cheerly.
So I suggest that he better come to Japan and join those of them, no need to hesitate.

We call it Tsundere

A woman who never makes sense

CU is a messy person, doesn't even know how to make a text link.
I was surprised that an adult American woman asked me to tell how to do that.
Anyway, she seems to have a serious problem but it's not my business.

A difficult woman who says she doesn't drink

I found out that she has a thing for me most likely.
I don't know her sexuality and not much curious.
But there was something very weird and concluded that she has something for me.

I answered her favor and

She banned me and later at her new channel, insisted that I should post my OP to tell what I think.
She refused to get me in trusted users list unless I post it.
I couldn't post any comment unless I am a trusted user because I lost all my votes and reputation lowest.
I had no much idea but not anything good that she thought about, but answered her favor and posted an OP.
Then what happened is that when I next time posted on her new channel, she somehow got mad and yelled at Paul something making no sense and banned me again.
Nothing makes sense.

Did I disappear?

Later I looked into what she said, found that she was not happy when I was not being around her.
She said I "disappeared" what does that mean?
I was staying here for some days since gloomy Paul opened a blog and it's quite comfortable here for not being threatened of deletion or banning.
This is my first time posting in not worrying about deletion or banning.
Then I came to CU's, then I found I was off from trusted users list that she promised to get me in when I post an OP.
She broke a promise again so I blamed her about it.
Then she got mad, makes no sense.

We call it Tsundere

Anyway, her kind is what we call "ツンデレ(tsundere)" in Japan.
Who can not show his/her emotion straight, be hard on someone who he/she's actually fond of.
CU could have called me back when she needed me, but she didn't, I don't know why.
However, I'm a straight woman.

Remember when Disqus used to be fun?

I do. Back in the "good old days" of Disqus eons ago it was fun to post and meet new people. Now it seems to be a never-ending plethora of ongoing feuds and fights. 

One of the first places I posted at Disqus was a place called All-len-All and I hung out at Nick's Rec Room. It was fun because I met lots of people with different interests from all over the world. I slowly ventured out into the Disqus world and came across haters and stalkers. This made Disqus suck and it was no longer fun. Recently I deleted my account and planned on never coming back. But I did come back and tried to only post a few places and only to have fun. Over the years on Disqus, I've met people from all over the world and for the most part, it has been good. On the downside the doxing, stalking, and harassment I have faced hasn't been good. At times I have felt physically ill from it. Life is too short to focus on the hate that's out there, and I would rather focus on the good things in life and on Disqus. 

I came back to Disqus because I missed talking to my Disqus friends and wanted to have fun again on Disqus, although I'm not sure that is possible. 

Can we set aside the feuds and the hate for a while and get back to having fun? Is it possible or has too much been said and done? 

I know people aren't on Disqus all of the time? What do you do for fun? What are your hobbies or joys in life? Most of you know I love gardening and it brings me joy. I'm an amateur permaculturalist and that gives me joy and peace. In the summer I grow dill and parsley for Black Swallowtail caterpillars. Butterflies and bees need all the help they can get to survive and it makes me happy that I can provide a small space for them. I saw my first Black Swallowtail butterfly of the year today and wondered if it started its life in my yard. The dill plants in my garden are filled with hungry caterpillars and I hope they all make it to be beautiful butterflies. 

This is a hungry caterpillar in my garden. I could watch them all day. What do you think about the current state of Disqus? What do you do for fun? What makes your life joyous or happy? 

I'm a loner, she's not

Anyway how do you like this decoration of my page?
No worry this is nothing to do with the other pages.

Finally I can post my OP here, really glad.
And I like gossip, like all the other woman do.
My guess is, she dumped a man who's no longer useful to her.
Where he's no longer available to offer "protection" or some authority on Disqus neighborhood.
I don't understand that why Disqus neighborhood means a lot to her, anyway, it is to her.

I don't like a woman who acts arrogant over the powerful man's back up.
I'm a loner, and super minority all the time in anywhere I go on the Engish web.
I'm also a super minority on Chinese forum as well, I just jumped into there 6 years ago all by myself alone.
And I knew I can be recognized to be part of east Asian family.

It was so unfair when she ganged up and persecuted me.
Shutting my mouth and slurring me where I couldn't get in.
I was so upset and frustrated.
But she doesn't know what a shame would be, makes sense.
Anyway, independent woman doesn't always need some man to back her up, I'm not sure if I am an independent woman but I certainly have balls and guts than she has, I go to everywhere, where I have no connection, because, I don't want to be seen like a coward woman who always needs man's protection.

Dear Disqus,what is occurring?

So it's been five days now of problems on disqus,admittedly on and off but twice today,and I haven't been on disqus for long,once this morning and then again now, I've had the Darn,something went wrong sign come on when I've tried to view a page and log in to make a comment when I'm already logged in.
It's not just happening on the channel system but on external sites with disqus as well.
In the past when there has been problems they have normally been sorted out in a few hours.I can't help thinking that something is going on here,like maybe they are getting ready to nuke the channel system,which we all know disqus doesn't want anymore and whatever scheme they have in place is at the moment affecting the whole of the disqus system,of course it could just be that they are incompetent.

You've Got To Fight For The Right To Party.

So what's been happening in Paul's world.
I've been involved in a long legal battle recently,I won't go into details ,but today I received the news that I had won.It cost me quite a bit of money,but I will end up making a nice profit from the case.
I must admit I'm quite a lazy person these days,semi-retired now,but I've worked hard for 30 years ,so I enjoy my leisure time.
The point of my post is that you have to fight for everything in this world and many times people want to give up,but if you're in the right you just have to keep going and you will be rewarded in the end,there is always an exception to the rule.
We live in a world where big fish eat little fish and sometimes little fish fight back,so you have to be strong and fight your corner,treat nice people with respect and fuck up bad people the best way can,without getting into trouble yourself,if possible.
Always when you enter a fight try and see things from the other person's view and that can help you decide if you're the one in the right,many times I've thought I may have been right,but after looking from their view point,I've changed my mind and walked away from potential trouble,in this case I looked at things from all points of view which is why I knew I was in the right and fought so hard.
So later I'm going to celebrate with A chicken Jalfrezi curry and then do the washing up.

PAUL'S BLOG

It has come to my attention that some people think that JOS and ER might be involved in the running of this blog and there for this blog will come under attack from certain people who don't like them very much.
I have to say I am the only person running this blog and it has nothing to do with anybody else.
I would also like to say that I liked JOS and thought he was a cool guy and I also like ER who has always been friendly and a help to me.
I don't go looking for trouble and I'm happy to have anyone on my blog(unless they try and stab me in the back).
I would like a blog where people can air their grievances and have arguments if they wish to do so,obviously I will draw the line at doxxing and death threats on my blog,feel free to insult me,but just expect to get some back.
My final point is this,if my blog is to come under attack because of my association with JOS,which was just for a short time and being a mod on his channel and because I like ER,then so be it,I would rather die fighting,than live like a mouse.

Paul with his doggies,I don't look anything like JOS.